Monday, July 6, 2015

Psychological Idea to Ideals of a Home

I came across with concept of a home as an individual for growing up as an Engineering Professional for keeping machines functional, and as an online Author for enriching myself with thoughts of others on their respective websites. Thus, every individual form of life grows in a home, every machine has a home position for taking up its next cyclic operation, and every website on the Internet has a home page to introduce itself to visitors. None of these functions work well without enriching and extending itself through its home position. Here, in this treatise, we deal with concept of a human home with a family as its most important constituent.

The Family

Mutually familiar persons form a family with the familiarity often generated through relationships of blood and human instinct of procreation. Under special circumstances, a family may consist of a single individual, but ideally it is a composition of mutually related bread-earner (the owner), veterans (parents of the bread-earner), youths (young brothers and sisters of the bread-earner), and children of the bread-earner. The four classes of family members take care of economy, intellect, energy and entertainment, respectively, for recreating each other for continuum of spirit of life.

in the whole composition of a family, all except one may be and are often have blood relationships. The only exception is a woman, the procreative force of the family, rightfully called a 'mother'. She is indeed the Home-maker, coordinating and facilitating all other members of the family at a pre-specified place, the Home.   

The Place

A home is a place that binds members of a family together with psychological affiliations and tempts them to return to the place again and again as soon as they get freedom from circumstantial constraints. Thus, a home is where the family members find food for themselves, enjoy their mutual relationships and freedom from external compulsions. It is not only a place, but mutually related inmates (family) of the place, both enriching each other with human values of freedom, emotional sensitivity and intellectual sensibility with inmates spending their moments of relaxation at the place. 

No place can be called a 'home' without a family, and there can be no 'family' without having a place called its 'home'. The family means a composition of individuals with feelings of mutual accommodation in an informal environment.

Sections of a Home

The place called 'home' provides personal spaces as well as a sense of togetherness to individuals in the family, and extends their lives to societal level. For this, the place must have three sections - private, business and public. Each family member has his/her private space where only mutually accepted individuals are allowed to enter. The business space facilitates the family members to do their respective home-work for fulfilling their social responsibilities. The public space of a home is where the family members entertain their societal relationships.

The Composition

Summing up the three paragraphs above provides psychological form to a home which comes out to be a multidimensional multi-faceted spectrum as depicted below.  
It is composed of a family and a place having 3 sections with each section performing 4 functions through members of the family, within a multi-dimensional social framework.
Such a complex constitution can't function without an overall coordinator, called a home-maker.

The Home-maker

A home-maker is often a woman who primarily provides her physical and psychological self as soil to procreate for continuing life on the planet Earth. Along with the procreation, she takes care of not only the procreated children but also all other members of the family facilitating them in their respective growth and performances at home. Thus, she not only have the toughest responsibility in the home but also deserves the highest respect of all the family members, provided she performs her duties well.  .

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